“Just that,” said the fox. “To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world…”
“Nothing is perfect,” sighed the fox. But he came back to his idea. “My life is very monotonous,” the fox said. “I hunt chickens; men hunt me. All the chickens are just alike, and all the men are just alike. And, in consequence, I am a little bored. But if you tame me, it will be as if the sun came to shine on my life . I shall know the sound of a step that will be different from all the others. Other steps send me hurrying back underneath the ground. Yours will call me, like music, out of my burrow. And then look: you see the grain-fields down yonder? I do not eat bread. Wheat is of no use to me. The wheat fields have nothing to say to me. And that is sad. But you have hair that is the colour of gold. Think how wonderful that will be when you have tamed me! The grain, which is also golden, will bring me back the thought of you. And I shall love to listen to the wind in the wheat…” The fox gazed at the little prince, for a long time. “Please, tame me!” he said.
DomCon LA provides DDI Magazine with a very unique photo opportunity. A little like the “yearbook photo” for the dominatrix convention, see how many famous femdoms & Mistresses you can spot in this time lapse. So much work goes into that single image for that single magazine that I can’t resist showing “behind the scenes.”
Are you in this movie? Recognize your mistress?
Sissy Night August Meetup - Crossdressers Genderqueer Trans All Welcome!
“One last harrah before Mistress Alice leaves for Burning Man!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, August 20, 2014 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food - join us for dinner. Donation pumpkin will be passed around to benefit local charity (this month it is the Center for Sex & Culture).
Dress code: Burning Man inspired outrageous garb ENCOURAGED! Fake fur, el wire, hotpants, the works!
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
This is Mistress Alice’s last harrah before she leaves for “that thing in the desert” to build a dungeon and host sissy events in the dust.
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word “sissy” to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. “BAGG” is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
Also, check out our SISSY VS FEMDOM POKER event on August 16th, there are 2 more player spots available.
For more information, contact Mistress Alice on fetlife or at http://www.aliceinbondageland.com
Let’s shoot this scene in San Francisco!
It is time to put FUN back into fun-draising.
This August 16th you are invited to come to the Second Annual Sissy Poker Tournament - Texas Hold Em Edition!!! Games begin at noon and end when winner takes all the chips and then takes on all the femdoms!
Alchemy Estates in San Francisco is an amazing dungeon & community healing space in San Francisco. They have existed for more then 15 fabulous years but now they need our help to take their venue into the next era. It is time for some important renovations to their building. Time for our community to step up to aid them in a fun way.
Sissy Poker is like normal poker but with extra-special rules:
- Sissies MUST play poker in BONDAGE.
- Sissies MUST be dressed in feminine clothing (extra points for extra fabulous).
- Sissies are encouraged to sit on butt-plugs for motivation.
- Sissies are encouraged to wear a chastity device to keep their concentration on the game.
- Sissies can be punished at any time by Mistresses.
- Punishment WILL occur every time you fold.
- Extra punishments may be invented or assigned at will by any Mistress “playing” the game.
This time we will be using standard rules for the “Texas Hold Em” Poker variant. Hats will be provided.
Femdom rules are simple:
- DISTRACT THE SISSIES.
- Women can cheat.
- Women SHOULD cheat, changing the rules at will.
- Punish folding and losing hands (especially when naughty sissies get caught bluffing).
- Gang up on the “winner” of the tournament (scene contents negotiable).
The winner gets to be the center of all of the women’s attention in the grand finale. Past winners have included a strap-on gangbang, group trampling, ballbusting, foot worship and more.
All play is “lady’s choice” since they are donating their time. Like good DJ’s we strive to take requests gracefully. All personal limits honored. At our previous tournament, dominant women outnumbered submissive players and things got very intense in the final rounds.
Model releases required, masks and disguises optional if you have a need for discretion.
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Sissy Poker Tournaments are filmed in front of a LIVE DUNGEON AUDIENCE!
Want to ATTEND this fabulous filming fundraiser as a non-player? Come observe and cheer on our brave sissies. Since this event is being filmed, you will be asked to sign a model release at the door. Please bring a mask or disguise to keep yourself discrete if you need to do so. Donations encouraged.
Are you a FEMDOM that wants to donate her time and punish sissies in a way that is entertaining/fun for all? Please contact me! I would love to add to our (consensual) merriment! You choose your level of “participation” in the playtime.
ARE YOU A SISSY that is willing to entertain femdoms by playing poker?
Reserve your place at the table for $100-300 (sliding scale). Money goes to benefit Alchemy in their ongoing evolution. Players must register in advance.
If this event sounds too fabulous but you live on the other side of the world, check out the following links:
Enjoy my creations virtually (including a movie of the previous Sissy Poker Game) at http://www.aliceinbondageland.com
Fetlife RSVP link (for audience members) https://fetlife.com/events/272178
You can also contribute to Alchemy Estates from a distance too! Join their crowdsourcing campaign and donate via http://www.gofundme.com/ar0xn0
From Ava DuVernay in an article about advice to young movie directors…
“I rarely meet people who tell me what they’re doing. I often meet people who ask, ‘Can you help me?’ or ‘How do I do this?’ or ‘Do you want to have coffee?’ ‘Can I take you to coffee?’ ‘Can we grab a coffee?’ ‘I’d love to take you to coffee and pick your brain a little bit.’ ‘Can I send you a script?’ ‘Can you read my script?’ ‘I have a script that I’d love for you to just check out if you can.’ ‘Can you be my mentor?’ ‘I need a mentor.’ ‘I would love if you could mentor me.’ ‘Is it possible for us to talk?’ All of that energy, all of that focus to extract from other people is distracting you from what you’re doing. All of that is desperation.
“When I figured that out, things started to change for me. When I’m meeting people and they’re in that moment, I want to say something to them. ‘Knock it off, because it’s never going to work for you.’ That feeling of ‘I need help. I need all of these things to proceed.’ And when I got that, a revolution happened for me
“All of the time you’re spending trying to get someone to mentor you, trying to have a coffee, all of the things we try to do to move ahead in the industry is time that you’re not spending time working on your screenplay, strengthening your character arcs, setting up a table reading to hear the words, thinking about your rehearsal techniques, thinking about symbolism in your production design, your color palette. All the time you’re focusing on trying to grab, you’re being desperate and you’re not doing. You have to be doing something. Because all of the so-called action that you’re doing is hinging on someone doing something for you.”
Vote daily for Alice In Bondageland :-)